The days when children have to move from one parent’s house to the other parent’s house can be an emotionally challenging time for them. They’re experiencing conflicting emotions because they know they’ll have to leave one parent, but they’re also happy they get to spend time with the other one.
Because transition days are already difficult for the children, it’s critical that the parents do what’s best for the kids during this time. One thing that’s vital is to keep the exchange as calm as possible. Part of this means avoiding conversations that might lead to arguments or tension.
Prepare the children
The parent who currently has the children should prepare them for transition days. Older children may be able to do this on their own, but younger children may need help with a countdown.
Limit the need to pack
You may not be able to fully eliminate the need for the children to pack some stuff to take back and forth, but it would be helpful to limit what has to be packed. Each parent should have some of the children’s basic needs at their home.
Give them time to adjust
If you’re the parent who’s picking up the children, give them time to adjust to being at your house. This doesn’t have to be anything intensive. For example, you could watch a movie together and eat the child’s favorite food.
The parenting plan is the basis for ensuring that both parents understand their responsibilities for raising the children. Working with someone who’s familiar with situations similar to yours may be beneficial since they can assist with finding solutions that are in the children’s best interests.
